Friday, August 31, 2007

Stepford vs Normal-What's inbetween?

Why is it that what we show to the outside world is way different from what we show to those "close" to us? Why do we always put on a show? Is it for the benefit of others, or for ourselves? Do others really care what you really are like? Do they think in their heads "Oh look, its those peoople going at it again!" Do others expect us to be perfect?

Look, dress, act like the Stepford family.

Don't shout. Don't speak. Smile. Nod. Even go as far as curtsying.

Is there such a family? Why do we judge others when behind closed doors, each of us is the same way. I doubt that there is a single family in the world which carries an ideal picture.

Sure, we all dream of it, watch it on tv. But can any of us say that we've witnessed such a scene in our everyday lives?

Next time you're out shopping or out on the streets and you see an argument between a family, don;t jump to conclusions thinking about how they need therapy. Instead, keep walking and think of your own family. I'm sure you've all acted in that manner.

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